Choosing Transparency
I've had two conversations in as many days that revolved around how hard it is to be transparent in relationships.
And it seems that the difficulty lies not only in our own desire to present ourselves in a way that casts a positive light on our actions, thoughts and feelings but also because of an unspoken rule in social transactions that demands (and I don't think "demand" is too strong a word) we conform to the "I'm doing just fine" standard that is prevalent everywhere you turn.
All around me, people are faking life. Читать дальше...
